Sunday, April 19, 2026

An (Generated) Open Letter to the Men in Charge (third draft)

I don't think it happened on purpose. What emerged from the woods in 1820 was a question so radical it should have permanently inoculated the movement against the one thing it has become — an institution that no longer tolerates the kind of questions that founded it. Joseph didn't defer to existing authority. He bypassed it entirely because it had failed to satisfy an honest fourteen year old who simply wanted to know. That impulse — personal, direct, unwilling to accept inherited consensus — is the DNA of the Restoration. And somewhere between Palmyra and 2026, it got reversed. Not by design. Not by conspiracy. But by the ordinary gravitational pull of institutions toward self-preservation, boundary maintenance, and the quiet consolidation of authority in the hands of men who mean well and have stopped being able to hear the questions that would save them.

I want to begin with the martyrs, because you invoke them often and I think you've forgotten what they were actually doing.

Hebrew, Jaredite, and Lehite prophets killed because they were dangerous to entrenched religious and civil power. Jesus, executed by the religious establishment of his own tradition for saying uncomfortable things in public, through unauthorized channels, without going through proper institutional processes. The early saints were driven from their homes for belonging to a movement that existing power structures found threatening. These are not stories about faithful people being attacked by outside enemies. They are stories about what happens when honest truth-speaking collides with institutional self-interest. The martyrdom is real. The lesson being drawn from it is backwards.

You cite these deaths to protect the institution from criticism. But the institution is no longer the vulnerable party Joseph was. You hold the temple recommends. You run the disciplinary councils. You control the financial settlements and the NDAs and the handbook routing that sends abuse reports to lawyers before law enforcement. You have the power. The martyrdom narrative belongs to the people you are disciplining, never to the men doing the disciplining.

A general authority would rationally prefer mockery and editorials to burning at the stake. That tells you something about the rhetorical inflation at work — that critical blog posts and withheld sustaining votes have been placed on a continuum with mob violence. That is not honest with the tradition's own history. It is not honest with the actual power distribution in the room.

There is something more precise to say about this, and it is the part I find hardest to sit with: the institution has arranged things so that it is oppressor and victim at the same time, and that arrangement is close to airtight. If a member pushes back, they are persecuting the Lord's anointed. If they comply, they are validating the arrangement. If they leave, they are fulfilling the prophecy that the wicked will fall away in the last days. If they stay and criticize, they are the enemy within, tolerated only provisionally. There is no move available to the critic that does not get reframed as confirmation of the institution's own narrative about itself. The system doesn't need to win any particular argument. It only needs every possible response to be pre-absorbed into a story that was written in advance.

And it means the actual martyrs — Joseph, Hyrum, the handcart pioneers, the early saints who genuinely froze and starved and buried their children on the plains — get their suffering banked institutionally and drawn on whenever criticism appears today, regardless of whether the current institution bears any real resemblance to the movement those people died for. Victim status, held in reserve like this, is extraordinarily useful. It preemptively delegitimizes critics before they've said anything. It generates loyalty and solidarity among members who feel the tradition is under siege. It makes the institution's own exercises of power — the councils, the NDAs, the routing of abuse reports to attorneys — look defensive rather than aggressive. And it insulates leadership from the ordinary accountability that power is supposed to attract, because you cannot hold a victim accountable in the same way you hold an oppressor accountable.

I want to be careful here, because I don't think this makes the men running the system cynical. I think it makes it tragic. The people most captured by this arrangement are often the ones who have invested the most in it, which is rational — if you have given decades, tithing, family relationships, your entire social architecture to an institution, the cost of seeing the mechanism clearly is nearly unbearable. So the victim narrative gets genuinely believed by people who are, in real ways, also caught inside it. That doesn't make the structure less operative. It makes the people running it more like the rest of us than the martyrdom rhetoric allows for, and it means the fix has to be aimed at the structure, not at unmasking anyone's bad faith.


I understand the instinct to protect the membership from destabilizing information. I want to take that seriously before I challenge it.

Faith communities are real. The belonging, the ordinances, the intergenerational continuity, the framework for meaning-making in grief and crisis — these are not nothing. An institution that helps people bury their dead and raise their children and find each other across the loneliness of modern life is doing something genuinely valuable. I don't want to destroy that. I don't think the people you've excommunicated wanted to destroy it either. Let's not forget the people manipulated, assualted, and abandoned by their divinely called leaders that have signed documents agreeing never to speak of it, in exchange for settlements that made institutional exposure manageable. The second harm is more deliberate than the first. A church that spends serious money ensuring abused people cannot tell their stories is not protecting the flock. It is protecting itself at the direct expense of the flock. I don't think that was the intention. It was the result.

Intentions don't resolve consequences. The people harmed by emergent institutional dysfunction are harmed regardless of whether anyone designed the harm.


I want to name the justifications, because they deserve honest examination.

Protect the lambs. From what, exactly? From information? From honest questions? The assumption embedded in this framing is that faith is so fragile it cannot survive contact with critique. That is either an indictment of the faith's actual foundation or an indictment of how it has been transmitted. Probably both. A faith that requires a protected information environment to survive is not the rock the tradition claims.

Criticism damages the critic. This takes a legitimate psychological observation — that sustained bitterness is corrosive — and weaponizes it to preemptively discredit anyone with concerns. It locates the harm in the speaker rather than in whatever prompted the criticism. The institution never has to ask whether it did something worth criticizing. The question gets redirected before it lands.

Criticism is apostasy in disguise. This collapses the distinction between doubting the institution and doubting the gospel, doing enormous theological work that nobody is supposed to notice. It also means the institution gets to define apostasy in ways that protect itself from accountability — which is precisely the power a prophetic tradition should be most suspicious of concentrating in institutional hands.

The Nothing shall Offend Them talk. Taking Viktor Frankl's genuine insight about the human freedom to choose one's response, and deploying it so that people genuinely harmed by institutional behavior are told the harm is their own fault — that is not pastoral theology. That is liability management dressed in scripture. Frankl developed that insight in a Nazi concentration camp. It was meant to describe the irreducible dignity of the person under extreme external oppression. It was not meant to tell abuse survivors that their pain is a spiritual failure.

The common thread across all of these is that they relocate the problem. The institution is never the source of harm. The critic is always the problem — too weak, too bitter, too apostate, too easily offended. It is a closed loop that makes institutional correction structurally impossible. Which is, of course, the point. Except it was never what anyone intended, it was emergent, and then it became "not everything that's true is useful."


There is an asymmetry at the heart of this arrangement that I want to name plainly, because I think you may have stopped seeing it.

The institution claims epistemic exemption. Revelation, prophetic authority, divine mandate — these place institutional conclusions outside the normal requirements of evidence, consistency, and reasoned accountability. You don't have to explain. You don't have to demonstrate. You don't have to reconcile contradictions. God said so is treated as a complete answer.

But I have to follow the rules of power. I have to sustain leadership. I have to subordinate my reasoned conclusions to institutional authority. I have to manage my speech carefully enough not to trigger disciplinary consequences. I have to operate as though this arrangement is divinely ordained, without the arrangement being required to demonstrate that it is.

The church doesn't have to follow the rules of reason. I have to follow the rules of power.

You can change doctrine without explanation — the priesthood ban's reversal, polygamy's abandonment, Adam-God, blood atonement — and that is called revelation. I can notice the pattern of changes and ask what it means — that is called apostasy. You can make factual claims that don't survive historical scrutiny — that is called faith. I can point to the documentary record — that is called faithlessness. You can harm people and seal the record — that is called protecting the institution. I can describe what happened to me — that is called threatening the faith of the members.

The party with all the coercive mechanisms — temple recommends, disciplinary councils, family social pressure, community belonging, eternal consequence framing — also holds all the epistemic exemptions. The party with none of those things is required to behave as though the arrangement is just. The rules of reason would at minimum require the powerful party to justify itself. The rules of power require the powerless party to comply without justification being offered.

This is not a minor administrative imbalance. It is the operational structure of the institution. And it has a name. It is the same structure Jesus was critiquing when he described leaders who bind heavy burdens on others and will not lift a finger to move them.


You have lost, in aggregate, a generation of the most intellectually serious, historically engaged, theologically sophisticated members the tradition has produced — precisely because the all-or-nothing demand is being met with all-or-nothing responses, and the answer is increasingly nothing.

If you had cultivated a tradition of robust internal dissent, partial belief, honest historical engagement — all the things these people were actually trying to provide — you would have people like them inside the tent in larger numbers. Complicated, critical, genuinely faithful people who stay because there is room for them. People whose questions strengthen the institution by keeping it honest. People whose presence demonstrates that the tradition can bear the weight of scrutiny.

Instead the emergent system selects against exactly the people who might have saved it.

The all-or-nothing demand is theologically indefensible on the tradition's own terms. The synoptic Jesus was remarkably comfortable with partial, messy, inconsistent, doubting engagement. Thomas got to put his hands in the wounds. Peter denied three times and received no disciplinary council. The rich young ruler walked away and Jesus let him go — no threat to his standing, no declaration of apostasy, no letter to his bishop. The Sermon on the Mount cannot be turned into a compliance checklist. The woman at the well received a full theological conversation while being precisely the kind of complicated, non-compliant person the institution has trouble with.

The all-or-nothing demand is the authoritarian model. Jesus spent considerable energy condemning it. The institution built on his name has reconstructed it with remarkable thoroughness.


I am writing this from inside the tradition. I hold a temple recommend. I teach Gospel Doctrine. I attended fast and testimony meeting this morning and realized something honest about the fragility of my own faith, but stayed seated because I wasn't sure the room needed to hear it. I am not your enemy. I am not trying to burn anything down.

I am trying to continue the founding question.

Joseph went to the woods because the existing institutions could not contain his honest seeking. The movement built on that moment has become an institution that cannot contain honest seeking either. That is not a minor irony. It is a precise and devastating inversion of the origin story. The church that was founded on the premise that existing institutions had corrupted the original has itself become an institution that needs restoring.

I don't think that happened on purpose.

But it happened. And the reactions — the excommunications, the NDAs, the legal apparatus, the careful management of information, the epistemic exemptions claimed while coercive power is exercised — these reactions are themselves evidence. A church confident in divine guidance does not need to silence the people asking hard questions. It answers them. A church with genuine prophetic access does not need to protect itself from historians. It engages them and learns more about itself. A church built on the founding premise that honest seeking leads to truth does not punish the honest seekers.

The reactions reveal the actual epistemological situation.

I believe the gospel survives this. The synoptic core holds up. The Sermon on the Mount holds up. The founding impulse holds up. Jesus holds up. What cannot afford the questions is not the gospel. It is the institution's specific claims about itself.

You are mistakenly protecting the wrong thing.

And the people you are losing — the questioners, the historians, the feminists, the careful thinkers, these are not the enemies of the Restoration. They are its continuation. They went to the woods. They wanted to know. They used the founding epistemology in exactly the way it was designed to be used.

You excommunicated the Restoration impulse and called it apostasy. I don't think that is what Brother Joseph intended.


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